In my quest to connect the dots as to what drives people to step into their own greatness, I’ve happened upon an Olympian caliber coach in my own small town of River Falls, Wisconsin.
As an athlete who went undefeated throughout his high school career, rocked his Division 1 (UW-Madison) college team, and made the All-American team for wrestling, it’s no wonder Kevin Black was chosen as one of the coaches for the Women’s Olympic Wrestling team in Rio this year.
I spent a couple of hours interviewing Coach Black and his lovely wife, Liz, in their home, while one of their 3 sons played in a pile of Legos. I approached the interview hoping to elicit Kevin’s secrets and strategies for success as an athlete, a coach, and a leader in his community.
If you’re ready to simplify your life, start with your living space.
Day after day, do you feel like your brain is constantly on cognitive overload trying to find and organize all of your and your kids' stuff?
Do you feel overwhelmed by all of your family’s material belongings?
Every time you go through your stuff, do you hem and haw about getting rid of belongings, and then ultimately decide to keep them again and again?
Do you go to your closet that’s full of clothes yet feel like you have nothing you want to wear?
When a girlfriend of mine recently received Marie Kondo’s book, “The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up,” I had no idea this moment would change my life. I had never heard of the book or of Marie Kondo, but since that first blip of her existence came on my radar in March of 2016, I have been immersed in trying out her method of simplifying, organizing, minimizing, and (in more ways than one) tidying up my life, ever since.
Yes, as much as I prided myself on being an open-minded individual…that was one snap judgment that I often found myself jumping to. Now that I AM one of those people, what I’m experiencing couldn’t be further from my once believed “truth”.
Instead of finding a bunch of closed off, cold, and ego-driven people, what I’m experiencing is interactions with people who are looking to connect, to share ideas, to collaborate, to offer resources, and to help me learn from their own good and bad experiences.
Even more surprising….internally, owning my own business has made me feel WAY more inclined to open up, to stretch myself to get up to speed with the connective aspects of technology and...
I mean, I’m not just talking about a little emotional release here.
I’m talking like half of my energy, half of my intellect, huge sums of money, fully exploring my sex life, and a large portion of fully knowing, experiencing, and appreciating the people in my life, especially the people I am closest to.
It literally is equivalent to feeling like I have been living my life as half a person to now experiencing it as a whole person.
I tell you what, feeling whole, feeling like I can see the up sides of things I used to deem as “bad” such as confrontation, conflict, anger, pain, and fear feels WAY better than avoiding those things and wishing they didn’t need to exist. And not only...