In working with all kinds of men from different walks of life and varying personalities, I have found one common theme that exists throughout:
At their core, men desire to please women.
Now, I know it can be easy to forget this on a day-to-day basis. Perhaps if you’re like me, you’ve communicated to your partner that your “love language” is acts of service and what really turns you on is having a clean house--and yet his parts of the house continue to look like a 20-year old-college-boy pig sty.
Think about it. Men have literally been fighting to the death since the dawn of time because they believe that in doing so they are somehow pleasing or providing for women and/or their kin. (Sidenote: I personally...
I mean, I’m not just talking about a little emotional release here.
I’m talking like half of my energy, half of my intellect, huge sums of money, fully exploring my sex life, and a large portion of fully knowing, experiencing, and appreciating the people in my life, especially the people I am closest to.
It literally is equivalent to feeling like I have been living my life as half a person to now experiencing it as a whole person.
I tell you what, feeling whole, feeling like I can see the up sides of things I used to deem as “bad” such as confrontation, conflict, anger, pain, and fear feels WAY better than avoiding those things and wishing they didn’t need to exist. And not only...